Last night's hockey game loss to the Florida Panthers was a devastating one for the Toronto Maple Leafs and their fan base, who have been waiting for almost sixty years for a playoff breakthrough.
I couldn't help but think of my friend Ed Durham as I watched the game. Ed passed away last week at the age of 90 after hip surgery. He was a big Maple Leaf fan who always hoped they could return to their glory days of the 60s.
Ed played hockey at the minor league level as a young man and continued playing on pick-up teams well into his 70s. On more than one occasion, he thoroughly enjoyed the opportunity to play against some retired Leafs like Bobby Baun, Red Kelly, and Bob Pulford in old-timer charity games.
Ed loved all sports including pickleball which he played until the age of 84.
I used to love hearing his sport stories from the past including the day he separated his shoulder sliding into home plate in a baseball game or the week that he and his parents drove to Pasadena, California from their family home in Manitoba to watch the 1952 Rose Bowl Game. I also learned that back in the 50s, you could get a driver's license at a small bait and tackle shop just outside of Winnipeg.
More recently, we enjoyed some NFL football games together. When the Buffalo Bills played the Kansas City Chiefs in the playoffs in 2023, he learned all about Taylor Swift. In the 2024 game, he put his allegiances to Buffalo aside as he cheered for the Chiefs to keep scoring so he could get another glimpse of that ‘music girl,’ he called her.
Ed and his wife Heather, who passed away in 2019, used to enjoy curling together and every year since 1993, their son Ryan hosts a bonspiel at the Thornhill Country Club in support of spinal cord research. Ed was so very proud of his son's fundraisers which to date have raised almost $700,000.
Here's hoping Ed is now able to watch all the games he loves with his wife by his side. He was a good man and I miss him for his kindness and his love for all things sport-related.
May he rest in peace.