What a special blessing it has been to be a part of Jacques’ life as well as his death.
Though I can’t help but feel sadness for his family and friends, know that this day is also a time of joy and celebration for all who believe in a loving God.
I can still recall his phone call in late March when Jacques informed me of his cancer diagnosis. It was March 26 to be exact and my blog entry entitled Soyez Fort Mon Ami seems prophetic in hindsight. I wrote:
“Jacques left me with two words at the end of our poignant conversation…attitude and gratitude. He is fully aware how important it is to keep a positive attitude during this challenging time in his life. His gratitude for this badly wrapped gift from God is a wonderful testament to the strength of both his faith and his character.”
In retrospect, Jacques has been faithful to his word. His positive attitude was in evidence right up to the end of his life. He was never afraid of dying, in fact, his biggest concern was that his illness would upset some of his family and dear friends.
His spirit of gratitude for a wonderful life was remarkable throughout his cancer battle. Never was he angry or despondent about the cancer cross that destroyed the very fibre of his being. In fact, he used his cancer time to reflect on his fruitful teaching career, his globetrotting junkets, his rich friendships, his opportunities to embrace life. His generosity was evident right up to a few days before his passing as he arranged a generous financial gift to help Father Hawkins and his ministry in India.
Jacques’ garden continues to flourish and bear fruit and so must we.
Thank you Jacques for allowing me to share your struggle, to help you with your cross. It’s been an honour and a privilege.
I will miss you, mon ami.
I have fought the good fight, I have finished the race,
I have kept the faith.
2 Timothy 4:7
REST IN PEACE
JACQUES
JUNE 19,1946 – JULY 3,2012
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